In your own words

How to prepare for a perimenopause appointment

You do not need a perfect account of the past few months. Start with what you want to discuss, the questions you want to remember, and any notes you already have.

01 / Your starting point

Start with the reason for your visit

Finish this sentence in your own words:

The main thing I would like to talk about today is ________.

Then add what you want help understanding. You can bring uncertainty into the conversation; your notes do not need to make a case for a particular diagnosis.

02 / What you have noticed

Bring a short account of your observations

Choose a few observations you want to explain. For each, write what happened, roughly when you noticed it, and how it affected an ordinary day. If you do not remember a date or frequency, leave it uncertain rather than filling in a guess.

One way to write a note · Fictional example
I have written down several nights when I woke up and struggled to get back to sleep. I would like to discuss this and what information would be useful to record next.

The example shows a concise note. It does not suggest why someone is waking up or which care they need.

03 / Make room for questions

Choose what you want to remember

Put your most important question first. Keep a separate space for anything you want clarified during the conversation. These general prompts can help you write your own:

  • What would I most like to understand before I leave?
  • Which part of my notes do I want to explain in more detail?
  • What should I write down about the plan we discuss?
  • If something is unclear after the visit, how should I contact the practice?

You can use paper, an ordinary document, or a personal Appointment Brief. Read through your notes once and remove anything that distracts from the conversation you want to have.

04 / After the conversation

Leave space for what happens next

After the appointment, write down the plan as your clinician explained it, along with the questions and next actions you want to retain. Keep your own questions distinct from the clinician's instructions. Ask the practice to clarify anything you did not understand.

Review personal details before deciding who receives a copy. Follow your practice's instructions for sending documents; keep private notes out of public comments and social posts.

After your visit, use the after-appointment notes outline to keep your understanding of the plan separate from questions you still need clarified.

A page to make your own

Your blank appointment outline

Six simple spaces, from your reason for the visit to the plan you want to keep. Print the blank page and write on paper. No account is needed.

Open the printable outline

Bring it together

Make your first personal Appointment Brief

PeriBrief helps you bring your notes and questions together. Your first personal Appointment Brief is free to prepare, save, reopen, edit and export.

Prepare my free first brief See a fictional example

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